I’ll have one year of sobriety this Thursday. I’ve never succeeded at staying sober for this long. It’s such a momentous occasion that my dad – the Marine whose motto is “Never leave a man behind”, the man who sent me to seven residential treatment centers over 11 years – is flying out to visit this Friday.
We haven’t seen one another in four and a half years.
1988!
This time – I don’t think it’s temporary.
Incredible! Now that is love!! Can’t wait for the one day when my daughter and I reunited. My son came back around, now to wait patiently in God’s timing. Beautiful story. I pray you remain steadfast in this journey. I am 3 years, and 8 months sober. Every day I remined of my daughter in some way. Sometimes I feel like crying. Then I realize most was from for years ago. She is almost 21. I barely know her as she is now. Mother’s Day is hard. Anyways, so happy for your 1 year! Blessings, and may your time spent with your dad be precious!!
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Thank you, Lisa!
I know that healing takes place in its own time (as opposed to the time impositions we create in our minds) and I imagine that your daughter will reach out when she’s ready. I know how hard it is to be patient – especially when it comes to kids. I have a couple of those myself. They’re young adults now.
Three years and eight months is a long time. Wow. Thinking about it is making me smile. I wonder what I’ll have accomplished when I’ve been sober for that long. You go, girl!
All my best. 🙂
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Congratulations! That is something to be proud of, good on you!
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Thanks, Honest K!
I appreciate your note.
🙂
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Yay, you! …and your Dad!
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Thanks kindly, Sascha!
(I’m not sure which one of us is more proud. Okay – it’s probably him.)
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I was in the Army and I have 4 years clean. It does not matter how long it takes as long as we know who we are. Good job. Keep it up. B
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